Dating sex tip
Being on that side of the situation made me realize the tragic mistake I’d been making with men when I was younger.
They’d told me exactly what they wanted in a relationship — to not be in one, basically — and they stuck to their guns.
The passion that made our sex so good also meant we bickered regularly.He didn’t tell me I was a bad person or that I was selfish.He knew casual sex was all that I could give at the moment, and when he started wanting something more, he walked away.By projecting my own desires onto our situation rather than hearing and respecting what they had told me at the start, I was setting myself up for heartbreak. The problem wasn’t casual sex, or the fact that it’s what they wanted.The problem was me, and denial (and maybe rom-coms).