Free fetish dating sites

However, most kinky people have to get out to events. There are also some big kink events that are great if you can afford to travel.

The biggest fetish/BDSM community, fetlife, isn't a dating site and there is not a search engine designed to find matches. I'm young, fit, everything good, but I don't know where to advertise myself where my type of women will see me.

(Dominant does not = asshole.) Once you build that reputation the women will come to you.

So I have been in the Scene over 30 years Unlike other rude wannabe pop up hookers with whips I enjoy play Lifestyle and pro respectful and play long and hard Many photo collector.

it is not specifically a dating site, but no one objects if you contact people that look interesting. Some advice : first of all, no *censored* picture for your profile picture. second, if you contact someone that looks like you someone might want to talk to don't be an ass about it. Mistymouse ( my nym on either site) I have had 0 luck with Collarspace and Fetlife.

be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. They make me hate myself more than anything, no one ever messages you.

Starting with pros can gain you credibility; most dommes don't want to waste time on total newbies.