Sex dating sites that actually work
With other apps, “so many times, we just sit on matches and nothing happens,” she says.
By design, that can’t happen here: The finite window of time to start up a conversation with a match is a good push to get things rolling.
“I think people really take it as a trying-to-find-a-partner app,” Busa says.
If you’re not into the idea of spending the better part of an hour in transit for a hookup, Happn helps weed out the far-flung potentials.
Feeld Pros: Feeld, formerly known as Thrinder, brands itself as a gathering place for people looking for something outside the sexual mainstream, like polyamory, kink, or multiple partners.
The app even includes space to list your sexual interests in your profile, which cuts out a lot of awkward introductory conversation, Busa says: “You’re meeting this person and you’re already like, ‘Okay, so we might have sex, let’s see if we have a connection.’ It’s really nice to cut to it and not feel like it’s a shameful thing to talk about.” Cons: The less experienced may have to do some googling.
And in her experience, Bumble tends to involve “too much talking” for someone only looking for something casual. Tinder Pros: At this point, “Tinder” and “hookup app” are practically synonymous.
It’s the original, one of the most popular, and the one to go to if you want the widest possible pool of options.